Someone just asked me if I am ever concerned about the sheer amount of personal detail that I share on my blog and YouTube Channel. Quite honestly, I frequently forget the scope and range of what I write, and who exactly has access to it.
Let me explain. I am, as anyone who has read this blog for awhile is well aware of, an escort and single mother. Now, there are TONS of Hookers, Strippers, and Porn Stars out here blogging, tweeting, and Instagramming about their lives. At one time, we were a rarity, but now it seems as if every other blog is by an escort or some self professed Sex expert.What unites many of us is our anonymity, our mystery.
Who is this person?
Are they real?
Do they really do all the things they write about?
But what about those of us who don't hide? What about those of us who don't have a layer of anonymity to cloak who we are? As my friend mentioned during our recent conversation, 'Erika, anyone with Internet access and Google can find you and read your shit! Doesn't that worry you?
I don't know. Should it?
Should I have to hide behind fake names, wigs, and disguises just to protect myself? Should I assume that all of my clients or potential clients are crazy fuckers? Maybe I just can't fathom anyone being that fascinated with me, or with what I do.
I don't ever want to have to censor myself, even if there are times when I undoubtedly should. I LOVE when clients say “I read your blog all the time". Real people read my shit and some of them on an almost regular basis, and I LOVE that.
I’ve stopped writing for a while due to my 9-5 job, family,and personal dealings. And I admit that…